By Tshegofatso Senne (Reposted with permission from www.holaaafrica.org)The first time I used a toy with a partner was an interesting time. He decided to name my cute little yellow clitoral vibrator ‘Stranger’, not exactly a good sign but we sure had amazing times. Him, Stranger and I. Stranger went on to please me (and other partners) for months to come. Pun intended. I’ve since been given the pleasure of exploring and being pleasured by so many types of toys that when someone asks me which to try first I probably wouldn’t have an answer. What I do have, is some things...

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It’s incredibly common for women to feel apprehensive about anal sex, and we don’t blame them. Sex expert , Alicia Sinclair, founder and mastermind behind b-Vibe gives the ultimate 101 on anal play for women. Sex educators regularly hear women share their story of first time anal. Generally, the story is something along the lines of feeling pressured into it by a boyfriend/ husband. Then with little education or preparation- and perhaps a few drinks to help battle the nervousness- a woman will allow her man to put his penis in her butt. Sadly, this most likely hurts (a lot) and then...

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Ladies, what a time to be alive. Never in course of history have women been more “on top” and in charge. We are opening up about what works for us and what simply doesn’t and what we will and will not put up with – from our spouses, our colleagues, our leaders and, of course, the media. Women are putting our foot forward in just about everything from sports to business, entertainment, medicine and even in self-pleasure. That’s right, 2017 saw the year of “#vaginaomics”, a bustling period where women have been leading the way in innovative, practical and aesthetically pleasing...

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Ever since the first piece of nylon came off the production line, this dainty little piece of lingerie has entrenched itself firmly in the minds and hearts of woman and men alike.  Passion, a dedicated brand to the most luxurious and sexy of these items, comes direct to you from their production line in Poland. Quality assured, unique designs and attention to detail is what sets this particular brand apart. Fashion vocabulary can be confusing sometimes especially when talking about stockings, tights, hold-ups and even bodystockings. This is our guide to the nylon wonders and a guid to find the right...

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Our leading brand in butt stuff, b-Vibe presents the ultimate guide to Anal Toys. If you have any questions or queries regarding b-Vibe or any other products we have, you can drop us a line at hello@wickedwendys.co.za. No question too big, no question too small! At b-Vibe, we know there are all sorts of anal toys to bring the pleasure of erotic stimulation into your solo or coupled love life. Whether you’re brand new to butt sex or can’t live without a little booty play in the bedroom, it can get a little confusing. So, we’ve crafted this handy-dandy guide to...

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